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May 16, 2025
Cute and Scary in Japanese Kawaii

かわいい x こわい Cute and Scary in Japanese

In today’s lesson, let’s look at a few word pairs that are easily confused in Japanese. The biggest one… is cute versus scary!

かわいい (Kanji: 可愛(かわい)い) Cute; adorable; charming; pretty

a very cute kawaii puppy cartoon

Usage: Often used to describe something or someone as endearing or aesthetically pleasing.

Example:

あの子犬(こいぬ)はとてもかわいい。

The puppy is very cute.

Vocabulary

こわい (Kanji: (こわ)い) Scary; frightening; dreadful

a scary movie on tv cartoon

Usage: Used to describe something or someone as fear-inducing or intimidating.

Example:

その映画(えいが)はとてもこわい。

That movie is very scary.

Vocabulary


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Listen Carefully to the Difference:

When I (Clay) first arrived in Japan in the late 1990s, a fellow American friend shared a frighteningly funny experience he’d had with a Japanese coworker’s newborn baby. Eager to use the little Japanese he had picked up, he confidently tried to say something like “how cute.” Unfortunately, his attempt backfired when the coworker snapped, “It’s かわいい, not こわい!”

Here’s the Ninja Penguin making the same mistake:

To the Japanese ear, these two words—かわいい and こわい—are as different as kittens and chainsaws. But for English speakers, the sounds can blur together.

🎧 Train Your Ears!
The key is in the details:

  • Cute is かわいい. Pay attention to the “か” sound and the longer “い” sound.
  • Scary is こわい. Notice the "こ" sound and the short "い" sound.

👂 Try saying both out loud a few times. Imagine telling someone their baby is “scary” when you meant “adorable.” (See above.)

Additional Example for かわいい

その(ねこ)はかわいいですね。

That cat is cute, isn’t it?

Vocabulary

Additional Example for こわい 

(かれ)(はなし)はこわかった。

His story was scary.

Vocabulary



Another Tricky Pair:

(すわ)

To sit – Notice it starts with a す

(さわ)

To touch – Notice it starts with a さ

Example:

(すわ)ってください。

Please sit down.

Vocabulary

このボタンに(さわ)らないでください。

Please don’t touch this button.

Vocabulary


おまけ!EXTRA!

One More Potentially Confusing Word Pairing:

おしり

(Kanji: お(しり)): Buttocks

()し入れ 

Closet

Listen to These Closely:

**Warning**: Be careful with the following

Example

あなたの()()れはとても(おお)きいですね。

Meaning: Your closet is very big!

Misinterpretation: Could sound like "Your butt is very big!"

Vocabulary


By paying close attention to the pronunciation and context, you can avoid these common pitfalls and use the correct word every time.

If you are a Makoto+ member, please download the bonus files and take the interactive quiz to test your knowledge!

Makoto+ Members, click here to download all the sound files and a printable PDF just for this lesson. It also has an interactive quiz to test your knowledge. Practice makes perfect!

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